Whenever any of our loved ones suffer with life threatening disease, the first thought that crosses our mind is ‘we might loose them.’ The thought of not having them around anymore scares us. Somewhere we cannot imagine life without them, we get used to the ways in which they add to our lives. However, it is our need. The soul suffering from the disease might have it’s own plans and might be wanting to travel ahead and pass over. During such times the real question that comes and stands in-front of the family is - whose need should be given priority, ours or that soul’s?
Recently, one such case came to me. Sharing that with you to define ‘What love really is’ and how it is much larger than just our physical existence. How even a deadly disease can be a blessing in disguise.
Case: Client’s mother was suffering from Intestinal Cancer. She was admitted in the hospital in the ICU. She was in unconscious state, was not responding too well to medicines, started loosing her body colour and warmth. Her liver and kidneys were not functioning. The client called me, if Family Constellation can help. I had never worked on such a case in the past, hence I told him “we can explore” however I am not sure how will her soul respond to it. We will follow whatever her soul wants and would not interfere with her journey. Whether she wants to pass over or turn around will be completely her call. The son, an evolved spiritual soul himself was in agreement with the suggestion. He wanted to respect his mother’s decision and wanted to ensure that if she chooses to pass on, she does that peacefully.
Constellation: In cases like this, when the client is under critical care and cannot come for a therapy, we can work through one of the family members who is directly related. In this case, the client as a son had equal stakes. We did two constellations consecutively spread across two days. In first one, we explored the reason for attracting cancer in her life and in second one we explored the role cancer is playing in her life.
Since it was the son who had reached out, I believed that even he had some role in this entire scenario. Hence, in the first constellation we placed energies of Mother, Son and Cancer to explore their dynamics. Objective was to explore the ‘reason because of which she attracted cancer and the path her soul would like to take.’ The constellation opened up showing that the mother’s soul is standing at the edge. She is longing to cross over, her longing was to meet soul of her aborted kids. She had lost 2 babies. She has one son and one daughter in physical existence but was now longing to share space with the aborted kids. As part of the constellation, getting to see reality the client gladly accepted her decision and longing however had an outburst out of love to re-claim his rights on the mother. (In the past, the client had issues with his parents and this outburst and reaching out to the mother for love was required for his healing).
Next day, the client messaged me that his mother has started responding to dialysis, her body warmth and colour has come back. Her health conditions started improving. I was amazed with what I heard. I told the client that she responded back to your love.
The next day client wanted to set up another constellation for her liver and kidneys to function.
In the second constellation, we worked with the same intention, that we will follow intentions of the soul and not interfere with her journey. The constellation gave us an insight about ‘role of cancer’ in her life. We got to know that the client’s mother has a history of cancer in her family. Her father and sister both suffered and succumbed to the disease. However, client’s mother was brave enough to fight this family pattern and overcome it. In the constellation the mother was standing at an edge with souls of her father and sister, where she chooses to turnaround and not follow them. Cancer was a reason for her ‘Self empowerment.’ The constellation showed that the disease was like a turning point in her life, post which she would shine in her own light as a winner. In past, we have seen such cases where near death experiences are just means to transform your soul.
Next morning, I received a pleasant message from the client stating that her mother has come back to consciousness, she has started opening her eyes from time to time and acknowledges what you tell her. Her dialysis stopped, and her blood pressure became normal. Few days later, I got to know all her medication stopped, ventilator stopped, her reports were constantly improving. Later she was shifted out of ICU and now she is back home.
This entire case, strength and love of the son supporting her journey has left me speechless. Like always, I bow down in-front of the energy or power which is much larger than us and guides this work.
I have included client’s comments about his journey and the work. He has happily given me permission to share this case with you along with his name.
“ My last interaction with Komal and systemic constellation was in Feb 2017 when my mother reacted to a treatment called chemo therapy .
My mother had a cardiac arrest because of side effect chemo. Her body went through shock and all her organs had shut down with little or no chance of recovery as per the information provided to me by a group of highly experienced surgeons and specialists at the hospital she was.
I contacted Komal to ask whether her work would be able to assist my mother in anyway.
We met the next day and set up a constellation for her. The entire process was guided through by Komal.
My only intention was to assist my mother spiritually no matter whatever she wished to choose . i.e: Stay as a physical form or pass over .
The session not only gave me an insight as to what was going on,but on a spiritual level also helped me make peace with my mothers decision.
Towards the end of my session I did have a burst of emotions with helped me release any resistance to my mothers decision and completely accept the outcome of the constellation set up.
In less than 1 hour after the session with Komal was over the medical professionals decided to try out a procedure (experiment ) on her as the last and final treatment which could help her medically.
In a couple of hours from the start of the treatment she started to get more and more stable and the doctors themselves could not believe the positive response her body was showing to the treatment.
I was in constant communication and kept informing Komal about the same.
I day later we set up a 2nd constellation. Once again only with the pure intention of assisting her choice.
My mother has only gotten better and better as days have progressed.
My faith in this service that Komal offers has become stronger than ever before.
Thank you Komal for restoring my family and returning my mother back to me." Love and light - Yezdazard Damania
" This case made me realise that ‘Love & family connections are beyond physical existence. On one end the mother yearned to be with her lost kids and on other end she needed a reason to transform her life and soul journey and cancer gave her that space. All her life she was busy doing things for other people. Cancer is result of suppressed emotions." - Komal Agarwal, Founder & CEO, I'm happy being me.
Systemic Constellation therapy is a modality which can be used for both family and business systems to explore and resolve hidden dynamics. In this modality we use work with an energy field called the morphogenic field or the knowing field which has imprints of your Soul DNA. It is a trans-generation multidimensional therapy that can map issues across generations and heal them. The healing that happens for the client has an effect on entire lineage or system that the client belongs to. You can read more about the therapy on my website or write to me.
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